Right now you'll have to live with the guilt of cheating. You have only 1 person to blame, and it's you. Brie isn't a bad influence, you're looking for an scape goat for what you did. And the saying I know of is "If you love your spouse you woundn't cheat". Don't cheat again and keep your mouth shut. It's best to not cheat in the first place. If he's not and if you're very sure that there is no way that he will find out, I'd keep quite AND DON'T CHEAT AGAIN! I always wonder why people say it's best to confess when all that happens are ruined lives. It will crush him and most likey ruin your marriage, unless he's VERY VERY understanding and forgiving. I know this goes against the grain but telling him will ruin everything for him and you. I have to agree with everything the 1st Guest said above.except to tell your husband. We have a beautiful family and I wont risk it for anything so I cant come clean with him because it meant nothing. My husband encouraged me to make friends and enjoy a drink or 2 once a week, I hate to sound self involved but it felt nice to dress up and sit at a bar, notice that some guys stared a bit, Im not an attractive woman to say but I was at one point and it felt good to turn some heads.Ģ weeks ago we had more drinks than we should have and Brie started talking to a man who was there with his friend, I participated in the conversation to help out Brie find a guy, well, alcohol and the ilussion of being found attractive led me to making love to one of his friends, now the guilt is killing me and I stopped talking to Brie because I feel shes a bad influence, I will admit the sex was great and erotic but the guilt kicked in right after and now im full of regrets and just want my husband and never leave his side. I instantly befriended a co-worker, Ill call her Brie, we are about the same age (35) but she just finished a divorce, her life is a lot more active thsn mines, now I love my husband with all my heart, faults and everything, my kids are my life and my home are the most important things to me, yet I have to admit as if I feel I got old very fast, I dress older and I have no idea about cool spots to have a drink, Brie helped me out with that, she is like more connected to the world. I think she did me a favor.It will be 10 years this summer of my marriage, I wont say they been perfect but pretty close, I was a stay home mom for 8 years, Financially we had some rough patches but we always pulled through, 2 beautiful boys who are both in elementary now which has allowed me to get back out there and got a job in a resort, the schedule is not great but the pay is decent, enough for hubby to work a bit less and dpend some time with the kids. I was like, ‘Oh, other people are out there and you’ll find someone else you fit with.’ I think she knew that. It was just what I needed and she knew it. I’ll spare you all the awkward flirting, but we hooked up and it was magic. I’m sure it was stupidly, like, the first thing I said to her. I meet this woman, we’re flirting, and she finds out I just went through a bad breakup. After weeks of me basically being a shut-in, I let my friends drag me out. Like, I had this whole plan in place for the rest of my life, with her in it. I thought I was going to marry this woman and she basically dumped me out of nowhere after we had been dating for years. I also liked the idea that maybe she’d try and return it to me. I realized soon enough after leaving that I could’ve gone back to get it, but I liked the idea of letting her keep it-it wasn’t an expensive watch. We had a good time together, but I left my watch at her place. "I met a woman in France while I was backpacking. "I’ll spare you all the awkward flirting, but we hooked up and it was magic."ħ. I remember that trip fondly." - Scott, 28 I did leave her my number, and she could definitely get in touch with me if she wanted. I t was mostly just a bunch of sex with a few breaks to eat. We hit it off, and I wind up going back to her place. So I meet someone who is like, once removed from my friend. The first night, we go out for drinks with his friends and their friends. I went to visit a friend of mine who moved to Chicago, and the plan was to spend a long weekend there. But we weren’t apart for those two days and then we never saw each other again. "Technically, this was a two-night stand. "I was hanging out with some friends and we went over to one of their friend's apartments who was female and had three female roommates, and me and another one of her roommates basically just agreed to have a one night stand." - Ryan, 26Ħ. Really and truly, just sex and nothing awkward afterwards." - Zack, 26ĥ. "I had a girl tell me she needed to get over her ex breaking up with her when we were at a house party. 10 Twentysomethings on Their Prom Hookup StoriesĤ.
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